Thursday, August 11, 2005

She's So Cool, So Smart, So Beautiful: Must Be a Girl Crush - New York Times

She's So Cool, So Smart, So Beautiful: Must Be a Girl Crush - New York Times: "THE woman's long black hair whipped across her pale face as she danced to punk rock at the bar. She seemed to be the life of the party. Little did she know that she was igniting a girl crush. Susan Buice was watching, and she was smitten.
Ms. Buice, 26, and the dancer (actually a clothing designer) happen to live in the same Brooklyn apartment building, so Ms. Buice, a filmmaker, was later able to soak up many other aspects of her neighbor's gritty yet feminine style: her layered gold necklaces; her fitted jackets; her dark, oversize sunglasses; and her Christian Dior perfume. 'I'm immediately nervous around her,' Ms Buice said. 'I stammer around her, and it's definitely because I think she's supercool.' Ms. Buice, who lives with her boyfriend, calls her attraction a girl crush, a phrase that many women in their 20's and 30's use in conversation, post on blogs and read in magazines. It refers to that fervent infatuation that one heterosexual woman develops for another woman who may seem impossibly sophisticated, gifted, beautiful or accomplished. And while a girl crush is, by its informal definition, not sexual in nature, the feelings that it triggers - excitement, nervousness, a sense of novelty - are very much like those that accompany a new romance.This is not a new phenomenon. Women, especially young women, have always had such feelings of adoration for each other. Social scientists suspect such emotions are part of women's nature, feelings that evolution may have favored because they helped women bond with one another and work cooperatively. What's new is the current generation's willingness to express their ardor frankly."

Wednesday, August 10, 2005

Rolling Stones stick it to Bush

New York Daily News - Home - Roiling Stones stick it to Bush: "Roiling Stones stick it to Bush

By HELEN KENNEDYDAILY NEWS STAFF WRITER
The normally apolitical Rolling Stones have no sympathy for President Bush.
In the refrain of the 13th track on their upcoming album, Mick Jagger belts out the refrain: 'How come you're so wrong, my sweet neo-con?'
'You call yourself a Christian, I call you a hypocrite,' the verse goes. 'You call yourself a patriot. Well, I think you are full of s---!
Fans have been buzzing about the tune, with many up in arms over rumors that Virgin Records cut it from the final disk, fearing America's conservative-owned radio networks and big-box chain stores would refuse to play or stock it."